Went to check out new glasses today. Found an amazing pair from Miu Miu that I think I'm going to buy. I borrowed 3 pairs of glasses to try on at home so by Saturday I must decide.
Glasses are really expensive stuff so the pair I choose must be the perfect pairs. Had some trouble with my eye today but the medicine I got is helping - good thing.
Started planning another champagnedinner with AnnaT today. I would love to try the Louise (Pommery) but she wanted to go for Bollinger instead. We'll see what we end up drinking. Sometimes I think she is a bit to much into brands and not so willing to try new stuff. Just because it's expensive doesn't mean it has to be great... There is this wine I really really like: it's Portuguese and only costs about 5 euros...but it's great!
Am back to my more skeptical and not so romantic self today. Checked the dating site yesterday and oh yes just like I thought Dr C is still logging on there. Actually he was online when I checked. So I suppose he is looking for someone else then. Too bad!
I have decided that a mixed CD is to personal, so I'll try to come up with some other idea. I mean seriously, why should I commit to him when he is still on the look out for some girlfriend material!?!
Well, like my friend Per always says: "Judge a person by their actions not by their words"
I guess it's time for The List again. Every time I have to make a difficult decision I write a list of pro's and con's. At the moment the positive things about Dr C are predominant but there is the Dating site issue which grows into a bigger problem the more I think about it. I wonder how he would react if I just ask him straight out. I should do that since communication is the key but I'm not sure I am ready for the answer yet....
Well, we'll see what happens :)
Take care!
Song of the day: Refuge (When it's cold outside) - John Legend
5 comments:
You really have to talk to him about it.
There are several possibilities:
(1) He may be just flirting on the dating site, having some fun and not thinking anything of it, totally unaware that you are worrying about it.
(2) He may not realise that you see your relationship as an exclusive thing and would be pleasantly surprised.
(3) He really is looking to sleep around.
I have probably missed out some possibilities, but the point is that, whatever is the case, it is better to know, right? Otherwise you're just going to worry about it and it will all come out in a heated moment or something. Much better to get it out in the open now.
OMG talk him! This is going to drive you crazy!
The question is do you feel like he's just passing the time with you till someone else comes along? If the answer is yes, I have another question, is that the real reason you're scared to have the talk? So many of us float along dating someone, hoping it will evolve, only to end up breaking up and feeling bitter.
But GF, take heart. From what I've read here, you're a catch. If Dr C can't see that, he's a fool with the wrong kind of fishing rod (pardon the pun).
Vell vell,
if you do decide to bring it up, do not corner him too much. Unless he's a full on psycho he might feel embarressed.
as previously i think you should just ask him out on a date through that site, maybe for your valentine's thingy and see what happens. make sure it is perfectly clear that it is you who is sending the invite. this way he will have time to reflect before you meet in person and the chat is likely to come in with some humour.
karl
Do commit. Because if you don´t dare, how could he? If you love- him you do. It´s simple. If you don´t belive in magic and the good things that happens in life, they won´t happen.
And talk to him. Nothing good evere comes out of not talking. Be brave- and win big. Games are for 15 year olds & fuckedup people. There is only a girl and a boy here, that likes eachother. Nothing to be scaerd about! :o)
Good things CAN happen. Doing your best is cool. Have faith.
I too would have confronted him...or at least had a mini version of The Talk to get an idea.But the ball is always in your court.
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